Well i have now spoken to my bank and they said that the best way for me would be if he were to turn up with cash and then me take him into my bank to check and count it and make sure it is in my account before releasing the car although they also said that isnt really fair expecting him to travel all this way via train with such a large amount of cash on him.
She then said that the next best option would be bank transfer which according to her is very safe and that i just need to ring first to confirm that the funds are in my account before releasing the car as transfers from some banks can take up to 4 days to clear and not instant as most people assume, the fact that the money will be probably coming from a business account means that there is no way that it could be done instantly even if he had the same bank as me.
I must admit that i do prefer the walk into the bank with cash option but will have to see first whether he can get cash as he has already said that he would first have to wait whilst the funds are transferred from his business to current account.
Funnily enough i have viewed a car today from a local dealer and got chatting and he also sold a car a couple of weeks ago to a trader who was exporting to kenya and said there were no problems and that he always used bank transfers whenever possible.
Now i just have to decide whether or not to go for the very nice looking focus st-3 that i viewed earlier or wait around and try and find a decent r32 golf, head is saying go for the focus as it is much newer, one lady owner, low mileage, more practical, probably cheaper to run and insure although depreciation will be higher, heart is saying go for the golf as they are more desirable and will hold their money better although they are now starting to have the odd rust issue and it will be of a similar age to my X which means that they are getting on a bit now.
This is the focus in question, what do you think.
http://www.autotrader.co.uk/classified/ ... ?logcode=p
The best bit is that it is has also just been main dealer serviced and mot'd and ready to go.