4300K is oem, and is a fairly true white, very very slight hint of yellow, but compared to halogen its crisp white.
By 6000 its already slightly blue, and by 12000 it will turn purple. Personally I prefer the 4300k's to my eyes at least they are the brightest, and they are still pretty clean/white.
As your eyes are less sensitive to blue, the higher the K the the bluer the colour and the lower the light output will be.
HID need projectors, so don't try putting them in the fog lights, you'll just blind everyone on the road.
To be "Legal" you shouldn't just drop HID bulbs into a Halogen Projector. The entire headlight unit must be approved. There are after market kits which replace the entire light cluster, for a HID variant, as long as these are approved (and not just a cheap Chinese copy) that's fine.
You'll probably pass MOT with HID's in halogen projectors, but you'll either have to aim them low to avoid dazzle, or you might get picked up on it. I'm sure many people "get away" with having the wrong headlights, so that's a matter of personal choice.
MOT tests are now supposed to include checks of the HID self levelling, and cleaning systems now. Although you are permitted to have self levelling suspension and then no levelling on the headlights. Just having a manual control to aim the lights is not the same though. (There is still some confusion as apparently some early HID cars were type approved with HIDs yet had no self levelling at all, but are OEM specced. I believe this affects some models of Subaru). BMW OEM HID's have always included self levelling.
Whatever you do... make sure you get pictures up!
